Will Sexting Get You Laid?
So here’s the question: if you’re hoping to make sweet love to a special lady friend, will sending her a sexy text message expedite the seduction process? Or will it bring the whole thing to a grinding halt?
That’s the debate raging (well, maybe crackling) between some supposed dating experts these days.
On the pro-sexting side is self-professed dating expert Carlos Xuma. He says that “the best seduction technique is for a guy to get the girl to start thinking about him in a sexy way hours before they have plans to see one another.” And you can do this by sending your lady a suggestive text telling her “how hot she makes you.”
Xuma says this is the same thing as giving your lady a long slow kiss or seductive glance on your way out the door to work.
So what do the female dating experts think about this advice?
Well, according to Anna Breslaw over at Glamour magazine, if you think a sexy text can be just as effective as seducing a woman the old-fashioned way, you’re an idiot. “Most women I know,” she explains, “are more likely to be seduced via birdcalls.”
So where do you stand on the debate?
Personally, I’m going to side with Ms. Breslaw. Sure, if the relationship is strictly physical, and your lady is just a horndog who gets turned on by booty calls, then sext away.
But if we’re talking about an actual relationship (wherein women want to “talk” and “connect” and all that), I don’t think a text saying “u looked so sxy ystdrdy in dat short skirt i wanna do u” is going to be a big turn on.
Am I right, ladies, or have I been going about things all wrong?
[via Huffington Post]
Comments